TOP 15 Females 2005

If you don't know who are they ask me, i didn't bother to type in the things they did in 2005, as that would need some research. Research=Time , i'm Lazy. 15 is the 1st picture and 1st in my list is this lady in orange above.

It's all in my opinion, don't scold me or what please, i missed out some though.

15) Lindsay Lohan
14)Gigi Lai
13) Jessica Alba
12)Charlie Yeung
11) Feng Yuan Zhen
10) Ashlee Simpson
9) Nicole Kidman
8)Lin Zhi Ling
7)Lin Xi Lei
6)Evonne Hsu
5)Keira Kinghtley
4)Rain Lee
3)Mong Kar Wai
2)Michelle Reis
1)Chung Kar Yan

Almost 66.67% are chinese females! Although undoubtedly there are many beautiful and gorgeous models and personnels, these are the top 15!

Thank You for visiting my blog!

HK

hey hey, i'm back. Despite the short 6 day trip, i managed to get my stuff. Yea! The protest was horrible, the Koreans were very rowdy on the final day of the meeting, but i shall not elaborate, let's take a look at the pictures.

Headlines the day after the protest.

Some shirts

Legendary Turtle at a Temple

Shoes

Shirts

Everything!

Lies.

Today, back to the normal posting, as i've come to realised that i was on a r0ck3R mood for the past week, not my usual self. After a few days of cooling down, i'm back to my normal self, and time to have some normal posts. Haha, if anyone of you is wondering how i cool down, it is fairly simple. Watch a late night movie, probably with a friend, go for supper, then stay awake till you can't take it. Sleep. Wake up, do something you like, stay up till you can't take it. Sleep.

Sounds dumb and stupid isn't it? But it works, when you are DAMN i mean damn tired, you start to think of something else and be out of the so called current state.for me, it works after 3 days, go out, sleep late, go out, sleep late.

Soon, i realise that many people tell lies, whether it is WHITE or 'BLACk'(no such thing) lie. End of the day, its still a lie. What's the big deal about telling lies? (some people may say) But the problem is A lie will just lead to another lie, soon it will lead to another lie, soon it becomes a habit. Hard to kick this habit i believe, it is so primarilly because its nothing physical, its the mind. One would have to convince his mind that A lie is bad, no matter for whatever purposes.

Let's make it work with some examples.

E.g PARENTS: How's your exams?
SON: Ok lo. ( in reality he barely passed the exams)
next day
PARENTS: Why are you not coming home for dinner?
SON: O.o my friend is having a birthday party. (went out with friends)
next day
SON: I need a new phone.
PARENTS: Why?
SON: oh, the speaker of the phone doesn't work( he heated his phone with hair dryer)

Ok, i know the examples sucks. I'm not a good liar. ( LOL, its the truth, HAHAH)

But what we've seen is that there is a progressive tendency of the SON making up lies. It is all about denying facts initially, but soon, it moves into an ACTION before a LIE, lies becomes more 'physical'... in the sense that you would do more to tell a liE after it becomes a habit. SO STOP TELLING LIES.

But all the above is based on many assumptions. Anyway, the message is STOP TELLING lies and stop convincing yourself that the LIE won't HURT. On the contrary, it hurts most when a lie is discovered by the person you have been lying to. And soon, as you tell more lies, one would try to fabricate more lies to cover the initial LIES that have been told. Soon, lies would run out and one would be in REAL DEEP SHIT.

That's all. Educational? Inspirational? Fictional? Helpful? Untrue?

You be the judge. LOL, very serious HUH.

I ROCK, but not a r0ck3R. Sorry, r0ck3R no more.

Yep, and i don't and never lie to my friends.

"With lies you may go ahead in the world - but you can never go back"
Russian Proverb

Hope

Yeah, after so many posts and after the movie, i began thinking of what my future girlfriend would be like, or rather what i hope my future girlfriend should be like. I haven't told anyone about this thingy before, as it is uh, too interesting.

The movie was the RU GUO AI, actually, it doesn't stimulate one to think of their future partner or whatever like that, but after the movie, i just began thinking along the lines and reach this topic.

Haaha, the friends that i had, only one was like this. Meaning, was what i actually hope to find in future, but that's the past anyway and nothing much continued after the break. Many friends i have go for beauty...

OMG i can't continue, i dunno what to type, maybe talking in person would be more relaxing. I dunno what should i type and what i shouldn't so i think better to forget it... sorry LOL

and sorry Luvis, didn't watch RU GUO AI with you.

THE chalet

yep, now is my turn to talk about the chalet we or I had. Yeap, as you all have read probably in other posts, the first day wasn't anything special and all, bbq and everything, nothing much special but we were at least TOGETHER. Things soon changed after hours, at around 2 (am of course) me shaun and Man left Aloha and went to Costa. What was the reason? Plainy speaking we thought we could have more fun. Nevertheless, we did consider the fact about the CLASS chalet and all, but our hearts pulled us away from Aloha.

Yes, while probably rest of 48 were in rooms playing bridge and talking your hearts out, we were at the other end watching Liverpool-Chelsea champions league matchup, and at the same time playing Knock-It-Down poker. Lol, go kenneth kang's blog for information on how to play. In fact, the game wasn't anything special, but, let's think of it. In MY opinion(solely mine, cause i dunno what Man and Shaun thinks) this game wouldn't be fun playing with 48, it just lack certain factors which i couldn't put in words.

I got to know that 48 slept at 0530, but we slept at 0700. What did we do? We even had fun on the bed( there were no sick things, only sick thoughts on the bed). When we woke up around 11, which i think was proportional, in speaking of the time people sleep at least or as compared to TJC, we hurried back to Aloha. Yep, we slept for 4 hours and we wanted to have some fun with the rest or with our class. As i called Jc, i knew you all were at the escape, but we couldn't take it, we ARE hum, LOL. Actually, we thought that we did not have enough sleep and the spining rides could only make it worst. Therefore we went back to Aloha to swim with people who also did not went to the escape. We had fun playing MONKEY, with Ys and friends bitching around. Seriously we had fun, with the class. Another Point is, we came back.

Yep we left the pool soon after we realised that the skin on our fingers had folds and creases and where many things dropped into the pool and contaminated the water! ( swimming people will understand this part, LOL) After taking a bath, we went cycling. Ys and group didn't leave for cycling and thats why you all saw them when you all were back. Once again, its pure coincidence that led to our dissapearance.

But what i thought was very much different while i was in the pool. I wanted some get together too and asked Jc if we were to stick to the Marina plan or what, but somehow, decided to have yet another bbQ. What did we actually do after that? Downtown east playing some lame arcade where Man got real pissed with copycat CMK, beating his gear shifting moves on the Advanced Daytona track. We went back and started yet another AP show. Everybody got real tired and everything, but while you all were watching, me and shaun were talking outside at the court. Before i divulge what we discussed about, i had to tell 48 that i had the class in mind always, I know that this would probably be the last time some of us are meeting each other and i had constantly double-checked whether any of our departure would have a heavy impact, and i constantly reminded shaun and Man about sticking with the class. They (shaun and Man) also know that we should be with the class, but once again we left in the night or rather the morning(3 am) to Costa, as we saw everyone sleeping. Ok, back to what i discussed with shaun. We in fact did not want to leave on the second night, and this is the truth as anyone can always double check with Shaun. But WHY DID WE LEAVE? Everyone was in their beds by then, nothing much would have been done even if we stayed.

Even after the Manchester-Benfica match, i reminded bryan to wake me up in the morning to pack up or maybe just to show my presence to you all, or perhaps to enjoy the company of 48, but it was my problem for that morning as i went down back in bed after bryan had miraculously woke me up. And when i woke up, darryl had my ezlink card, which I really felt very sorry, really sorry for this, that we continued sleeping when you all were getting ready to leave this sentiments similarly applies to Shaun.

What is it here? In fact we do admit that we were not right or at least should not be leaving the chalet, but what woukd we have done? Also, we made it a point to only leave in the midst of the night. This is not some defence shit, but just to allow everyone to better understand our absence, espicially for those who went to escape.
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The problem actually lies with the mentality of all in 4805 that we can perhaps( using a rather strong word here) NEVER get close together, I mean for some( around 10?) of the 25 people. Mrs Chung was right after all? Isn't it? We would only come together when we had a common cause, and when 'Operation Rescue Form teacher' was over, WHERE the hell is the BOND? Nevertheless, this chalet would be a good leson to learn, do not force people together, i mean under one roof. Certainly for most of us we would remember each other, not because we would be in the same school but because of the memories and time we spent together. 4805, wish everyone a merry christmas and bright future ahead.

This id probably the best thing to say to 4805, i mean the phrase'wish everyone a merry christmas and bright future ahead' . Everyone is so concerned with their future and results, where would there be togetherness? People come together only when time is SPENT TOGETHER. How is Jc able to be in contact with his primary school friends after 4 years? Effort and heart would be the best reason, all parties play a part by putting in effort to take time off to meet. Would this be possible with 48 in the future? erm, let's think about that. Bye

Here's some great photos.

Police & Thief

Before anything, lets have soem definations... It helps to make things easier

Police= Dog
Thief=Cat

No prejudice against any animals here, and i have kindly avoided Monkeys.

Now without further ado, let the story begin.

There was this Dog, who graduated from the police academy, he was busy with his activities, such as mixing with his friends and perhaps developing his other talents. However, due to these myriad form of activities, he neglected an important aspect of his career, which is to work for promotion. The Dog has a friend, which was the Cat. Neither was he close to the Cat nor did he have extremely good ties with the Cat, however they had certain chemistry binding them together, this is for sure.

Cat soon realise that his friend Dog had this difficulty and realise that he could never make it to the ranks... He would forever be this little police guarding the neighbourhoods. Therefore he decided to help him.

Since the Cat was a thief, he knew many 'bad guys' who flout the law, and he decided to help the Dog by giving him some tip offs. Certainly, he went all out to help the Dog as the Dog soon became the officer of his police station. However, as he rises up in the ranks, he could not be too close with crooks like the Cat, because the intelligence department would definitely be able to realise what they are up to. And too, he realised that the Cat had bad habits and certain character flaws. The Cat did not steal normally as a thief would, he stole from kids or old grannys, taking from the weak and avoiding the strong.

Soon, the Cat was noticed by the poilce as the Cat went on to steal in museums and exhibitions, and the Dog's latest case was to catch the Cat.

There were some mental struggles in the Dog, as he knew that the Cat once helped him. However, they are naturally apart, as one is the POLICE and the other is the THIEF. What should he do then? The Dog tried meeting the Cat secretly at night, and tell the Cat to stop its acticvities. However, the Cat would not change as the chinese saying goes 'empire can easily be changed, but character cannot' (sounds a bit off, pardon me >.<).

In the end, the Dog decided to call for a change in his department, and he avoided criminal cases. They would probably never meet again. However, the change involves lots of bureaucracy, he still needs to stay in the department for 3-4 months, the case should be solved by then and meant that it woukld not be possible to avoid, what should the Dog do?

In his heart, he feels indebted to the Cat, and he must admit that he had lots of past dealings with the Cat, however, he detest his adamant personality and feels that a clash is unavoidable. So what should the final decision be?

YOU DECIDE!

1) Catch the Cat?
2) Ask for immediate change of department?
3) Ignore the case and slack, till he changes in department.

Perhaps tell me online or use the tag board. Laughs.

friends

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these are all overstatements, isn't it?

Info

"What? What did you say?" that was my reply when my friend, the one trying to mimic the TOA PAYOH legend told me something. hehe, want to know more? Scroll down...










ALL OF YOU ARE GOSSIP HUNGRY BIATCHES!!! hahaha
Hey Hey, guess what he told me, he said that his 1V3 experience was a flop, and he didn't got the SURPRISE at all, and he was no where near it, nothing much actaully happened too, now i think of it. (IT WAS LARGELY EXAGGERATED BY OTHER PARTIES, WHO KNOWS ONLY PARTS OF IT.) This was what i thought: ' what the hell, obviously you didn't get it, you are just desssss '. After a while i told him this, and he said that it was quite true, and perhaps he was in heavens thats why he felt otherwise. HOWEVER, now here comes the interesting PART. Haahaha, as most of us would know, he has a neighbour, lets give her a name (from now on neighbour= GLUE). I think you all can have an idea about what is THE neighbour like when i give the CODENAME. hahahah. Apparently, the neighbour sticks to him... and he is really devastated by this, he claims that he feels tormented, because he don't have his own living space, the neighbour would VISIT him whenever his parents are not at home. OPPS. But personally i think this is rather one-sided lo, cos i think he won't want such stuff, as i person i know.
I wonder what they do, or rather what the neighbour does... GLUE is even around when i was chatting with him rather late in the night(early in the morning), omg.... what is this...



What's up with him man? I would fear the GLUE would cause him to revert back to his old self( if you all get what it means, dunno then maybe call me and ask me nicely> hahah). Hiaz, thats all for him... I dunno what's up on his mind, now he wants to be ALoNE... He realise that any company(friends) is rather boring and bothersome after sometime, hope he finds his way!!!
But these series of experience certaily have made him a better person, he IS NORMAL now, haha, not desperate anymore.

Tennis is Fun! But there is a paedophile coach, i'll see whether i can get a picture next time, look out for him. Ok, i suppose you all need evidence, here's a n abstract from his conversation with the little kiddies.
PAEDO: hey, you've improved 300% today, keep it up!
KIDDY: uh, ok.
PAEDO:Hgh five man!
KIDDY: (complied) -.-
PAEDO: I think i should give you a hug.
opps that's all for today.
Anyway, he is decked out(vocab in courtesyof ged's blog) in tight fit sleveless shirt and short pants...


Let's hope that the chalet is FUN :D


PS: zW can you bring your instrument and give us a public perfromance? I mean your erhu, yup

No More

faith

Yesterday night would be history, i would certainly remember that night, albeit for many reasons. Photos we took would definitely remind us of the great friends we have had, and would certainly bring back fond memories in the future. Altough there was fun, there was dissapointment as well.

Firstly, can we form an equation that states, have faith= trust? (take a moment to think whether it works, it will help you to undersatnd this rather abstract post better)





Yeah, i think this is certainly workable, as if you have faith in the person, you would trust the person. But in reality, one says that he trust the person, but doesn't really have faith in him. So it totally disproves the theory isn't it? This is reality, but we have already agreed upon the fact that have faith= trust isn't it ? but what is the fucking problem(sorry for the vulgarity, i've stopped using it anyways) then? hahah, after some consideration, my brilliant brain has given me the answer. This scenario can't happen as i seriously think that the equation doesn't work another way. You can't possibly have faith in the person and do not trust the person, simply YOU ARE LYING. I've been deprived of my life when i was in catholic high, although i myself committed myself to it, but now what? I am still fucked up isn't it? Just because i never gone against you you think that i can't? what the fuck, you know me good enough. The problem doesn't lies in the fact that you don't trust me or what, just fucking don't give some damned reasons that you know won't decieve my brain. I promise, this is the last time i'm going to compromise...


"To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved"
George Macdonald

Catholic High

Time flies... tomorrow will be the graduation for the secondary 4's from catholic high school. It's been long awaited by many people. Many who used to be normal students( poser=QINGWEN=not normal) have visited orchard or various shopping malls to update their wardrobe. Most of us would be thinking of ways to exploit that night, i mean yeah, exploit. But what about after that night? Would you walk differently? Would you talk in a different manner? Would you forget your friends?Would you be a different person?Would you forget your juniors? Would you forget your teachers?

As a matter of fact, i think there wouldn't be a change, at least for those who don't want to change. Certainly there are regrets in this school, at least for myself, but it had brought us fun and joy. Many of us(i mean 4/8, as i know of) have committed ourselves to the future programmes of catholic high, i've wondered whether this 'deal' as i would call it, comes out sincerely from our hearts or do we think it is a chore to fulfill? I mean for those who have benefitted, more or less its our of appreciation and worst to worst treat it as a return of favour, however, for certain people, i mean a SMALL group, why have hey made the choice?

I'm not questioning about why people are doing this by the way. This actually leads us to what i want to say. Would there be peole backing out? Are our hearts truly with GONG JIAO?

we never know.

Maybe i will be the one backing out. One never knows.

hahah, why am i writing such things??? haha, maybe 7hrs of DOTA spoiled my brain...

"Unless you can find some sort of loyalty, you cannot find unity and peace in your active living"
Samuel Butler

Another day

Whew, another week passed, befroe long, i think i wil be back in school again. First thing first, all the blogskins for darryl and kuty looks decent( mines the best) muah hahah... Harry potter was a bit of a dissapointment for me, it wasn't as fantastic as what the critics said, i think it was only worth at most a 3 star, the 3 stars was for the part where hermione jumped out to hug harry(opPs). It was really a very special scene. However, the scene where hermione was crying because of the insensitive harry potter and ron, was VERY redundant... wasted 10 secs...wth, how has it got a link to what was happening then, might as well remove this scene, and added more quiddITCH animations apart from the pathetic VICTOR KRUM scene...

yeAh, JJ bought a dirty-green coloured jacket, it looks rather cool, i think it will definitely look nice on JJ as he is very, and i seriously mean VERY muscular. Lan today was a bit sian, no doubt, perhaps it was because we got owned??? I really don't know, beginning to lose interest in DOTA le...haha, anyway, it is makes me another day closer to VJC.

In fact, i'm afraid that i would not be able to get to Vj, it would be horrendous for me, if i didn't make it after the release of 'O' level results, i started asking myself how much i have prepared.
Not much actually, frankly speaking. I would definitely not regret over what i have done, because i had a enjoyed myself then. But what if i didn't make it to VJC...

The day to sentosa wa quite fun haha, we are really dumb to go out on the rainy day, but who cares? We've enjoyed ourselves and certainly had some fun, we'll take a look at the pictures in next few post i suppose.. Shaun Ho was really stylistic in his spike, pointing into the sky( the picture illustrates it), the picture looks a bit off la, he looks more like a monster poser instead of his usual cool self, haha, who cares? He just look zai with the pose. (shuan pls pardon me for this) Anyway, YS used his socks to wipe off the sand that went on his face, eWWWwwwwWW... not his usual self. ( YS i used his ok?)

Oh, btw, anyone who read my previous post please don't guess that you are the person or what. I believe you have already taken action to remedy the situation cos you are NOT dumb. Anyway, i will not change my point of view of a person over an incident or whatsoever, my friends are still my friends, please take whatever i mention in my blog lightly as i would definitely talk about extremely sensitive or serious issues, ok???

I just feel like adding this picture, he look really cool doesn't he? I'm not a GAY(thx). I just want to have a picture in this whole lump of words and letters!

Good luck my friends in whatever you do!

no quotes this time.

Friends

wOw, a long time since writing or rather typing anything agian. Now, full of inspiration, i would have some stories to tell.

Its once again about friends and myself.

MISCONCEPTIONS
A friend of mine is always very chatty, he i mean actually 2 parties are involved in this POST, in fact both of them are very chatty. Both are nice personnels who would render aid to any one who needs it, albeit sometimes delayed aid. There was a long histiry to this misconception. It was due to the nature o ftheir personality that this misconception ever occured. The problem infact escalated to the extent where one party would not like to see the other. But why wasn't it resolved when both parties are reasonable and decent people?
In fact, it was due to this misconception, which i would now like to talk about. One of the parties felt that he was on decent or even good terms with the other. This was in fact an assumption of unreality. The ultimate truth was that one party greatly disliked the other, due to some comments made between them. What's the problem here? One party has to wake up and tell the other party that YOU SUCK, or the other party must realise that HE SUCK and proceed with apologies... Only when one party accepts the blame then they can coexist again...

AND dye hair guy, please even the colour next time.. =D

Yu Hu

The exams are finally over. Its time for 4/8 to get together. I really have nothing to tell you all la, seriously. ALL that i can say is that JC teo is damn 'hiong' but i will try to tell you all(NZW) if you really really wish to know.

4/8 gogogo!!!


"Courage means to keep working a relationship, to continue seeking solutions to difficult problems, and to stay focused during stressful periods."
Dennis Wailey

Showing Gratitude

I was wondering about what to post on my way back home, but i was sure about this title(showing gratitude) after this day 15th NOVEMBER 2005 where i had my first AMATH paper.

My fellow classmates, would know my standard in this subject( sounds as if its my best). In fact, i have never had a PASS in this subject since the 2nd term in my Secondary 3 year, right till my prelims, i was still failing...badly...

In contrast, today when i took the paper, the feeling was completely different. Usually, my mine would be messed up with different wrong methods to attempting the question. However, today i know i knew the way to do it. Even when i encountered a question which i'm not sure of how to do, i calmly proceeded to the next question, feeling the composure. I hope the results for this subject would be positive when i'm recieving it next MARCH.

But how have I made this improvement? Obviously someone gave me aid. Initially, it was my tuition teacher, however after he opted for a change in his occupation, he became very busy and had less time to look and scrutinise at my work, therefore he didn't know that i was not doing the work he assigned and this was the reason why i had not made any improvement in the past year. Nevertheless, one would still have their teacher, however my teacher placed her trust in me to do my own studying, as she had faith in my aptitude, i failed her. I did not have the discipline to do my ten years series, my ten years series would certainly fetch a good price in the 2nd hand brash basah complex, it still looks DAMN new. Here came my saviour 2 weeks before the 'O' levels. He is a friend of mine who is extremely proficient in the subject of mathematics, he rendered aid to me unconditionally... OBVIOUSLY I've GROWN under his help, as i felt that the paper was now rather managable.

Now, although I said it was unconditional, i felt quite bad as he spent lots of his time with me, going through things which he was more than familiar with. We spent many days and nights together( uh, not physically) ploughing through questions and concepts. I had many of my doubts cleared, and finally had the chance practising. I really do not know how I should show appreciation for his efforts... It would definitely be something 'special' ( not what my friend got(kiss) as i mentioned in the post TAKING INITIATIVE though). But i wouldn't mind if he requested( haha), i'm not a gay, but i'm really serious in expressing my thanks to him as he really help me lotsss. Maybe, I would have better ideas soon, please wait my friend.

Actually, why are people so keen or for most people keen in showing gratitude towards others? Is it the nature of huamn beings or it just happens to some individuals? I really have no idea man. But seriously, you will feel much better saying a word of thanks to your teacher, parents, friends, for whatever they have given you. I'm not talking in the aspect of KARMA or what, but both parties would definitely feel better, as probably you show that you appreciated his/her efforts.

"Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude."
Denis Waitley

Really for friends?

Now, i suppose everyone's blog will be something like 4days left!!!(for those taking O lvl's) but lots of things happened during this period of time, amidst the busy and troubling O lvl's.

As mentioned in the previous post, my friend told me about his unexpected rewards for taking initiative. But instead of keeping the scret for him, i leaked it. (You may think that i'm a bloody loser by now, but i shall explain myself) When people do something, I mean there must be and would be a reason behind it, be it good or bad. Obviously, by leaking the 'secret' it would be for a good purpose; if i leaked it for a bad purpose, then i do not deserve to be my freind's friend, isn't it?

Frankly speaking, in my opinion, the people that my friend is 'messing' with are probably devil-may-care type of person, and he was on top of the heaven. This is why i leaked the information, and i shall not explain more if one can't comprehend.

However, after what i've seen were the effects of my acts, i felt really sorry for my friend who took me as his fast friend. I kind of like betrayed his trust or something like that. Ok, it's not something like that, i betrayed his trust. I think this may sound very 'womanish' (i'm not a male chauvinist by the way) but i'm really sorry, as this incident became more pronounced, another classmate of mines felt in a way unhappy(pardon me if i'm wrong). He began to have small quarrels with my friend. This wasn't what i wanted.

Maybe it was my fault that i tried to help, i mean who am I to interfere in someone else's life? Although another friend of mine who is otherwise known as the 'toucher' felt the same, i believe and seriously think that i shouldn't have acted.

In fact, this brings us to a point of what people always said. 'mine your own bussiness'
should we keep our feelings or thought's to ourselves, or should we try to interfere with some other person's life? Can we draw a line to decide whether we are helping others or simply being a busybody?


Anyway, let's work hard for the remainig days for the 'O' level's.

"What is Friendship when complete?
'Tis to share all joy and grief;
'Tis to lend all due relief
From the tongue, the heart, the hand;
'Tis to mortgage house and land;
For a friend be sold a slave;
'Tis to die upon a grave,If a friend therein do lie."
Anne Finch

Taking Initiative

Taking Initiative

Today, i was on a bus, travelling to my grandmother's place. It so happen that the bus was suffocatingly crowded. i thought it was because of the muslim festival, but i realised it was yesterday but not today.

Come on, by now you may be asking what has it got to do with Taking Initiative? Now, this was what i saw. Since the bus was crowded, many people was standing, then and there i saw a young chap, perhaps around my age looking slightly uncomfortable. Why is it so? I came to realise later. He was in fact pondering whether to give up his seat to an old lady; he gave up his seat after 2 stops but by then, the old lady almost reached her destination. What a pity.

This in fact is closely related to A thing that me and my friend have been talking about. We dicussed the fact that people, i mean boys and girls or man and women often missed their chances because they do not dare to make the first move. There seem to be this layer, blocking or preventing the 2 people to come together to become friends. We sought for a solution, which is to come up with this method to break down this imaginary barrier. However, there seem to be no plausible solution to this problem, except for taking the initiative to say probably HI. But this is provided that the other party don't shun you off ba...

Hey hey, there was another friend, who discussed this another incident with me, it was a matter which concerns us both, or in better words related to us both as we were once from this organisation in school. We had this junior by the name of Edward, which we talked about, actually it was the organisation as a whole. This junior seem to take us or rather him, as i'm not concerned with such matters, to be TRANSPARENT to quote him. He was rather offended by this PHENOMENON, which i think is far too common nowadays. He thinks that at least he should say 'hi' or something like that, which i do not think is asking to much from THEM. Where does the problem lies in??? I questioned the ties that bind, because this surely does not apply to us, as we would say 'harlo', to even some seniors whom we are not close with. He agreed. But the bottom line is that, whether we have imparted ot taught them anything, you should say at least a 'hi'. You do that even to an aquaintance don't you??? He was really disgusted by this type of behaviour. And i think that this incident is really worth everyone considering, taking in the fact that they are the leaders of the student body...

Now, in fact we should take initiative in many things, such as love and friendship. This things which are imaterial, literally, takes effort to build, and would weaken or lost if consistent effort is not put in.
4805 , hope that this does not happen.

Time for gossips. I have another friend, which is rather successful in achiving his aims, by taking initiative. I had rather long conversations with him that day on messenger, which he seems to be exorbitantly happy. He had a 1V3 experience. He is not the legend in TP Library, for 4805s' information. He did this single-handedly, and he is thrilled by the experience. I hope he would not blame me for saying this. He took the initiative to ask to study with them, which he then took another initiative by saying that 1 of the girls was cute, and he got a surprise, which i shall leave you all to think about...haha

Don't waste anymore time, do it now.

"You've got to take the initiative and play your game. In a decisive set, confidence is the difference."(American professional Tennis Player. b.1954 Fort Lauderdale, Florida, USA)

TAGBOARD(pls read)

Hi, new posts will be up soon, if you want to know about my fratenity.

Sorry, because i'm searching for inspiration and time.

4805

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